Posted by: Jacqui Sjenitzer | May 16, 2008

Can’t believe the time has come…

And that it’s more than five months since I’ve had the Practitioner course CDs in my possession. I’ve finally finished listening to all 40 hours – I started off listening to them all the time in my car but a change of car meant I had no ipod connection in my new one and a change of job has meant little in the way of spare thinking time! I got back on track after making the brilliant connection that using some of the techniques I’d learned from the CDs might help with the birth pains of said new job – indeed exploring submodalities has managed to bring some brightness back into that side of things and have started asking ‘for what purpose?’ and ‘who, or what, specifically’, both of myself, and of people I work with, with fab results.

Towards the end of the CDs I started to feel ready for the course – ready to ‘have a go’ at some of the techniques, and fill some gaps in my knowledge where I hadn’t quite grasped the idea from just listening to the CDs on my own. I’d always thought I wasn’t visual (funny, that) but found wanting to see some pictures to illustrate a few concepts, did a few internet searches on one or two concepts, and am really, really looking forward to the course next weekend. If I hadn’t learned so much about doing things for the first time and learning from the CDs, I might be in danger of being a little nervous – but as it happens the pre-course study has prepared me well for turning up with an open mind, a positive ‘have a go’ attitude and ready to learn. See you next week!

Posted by: Ben Dowman | March 21, 2008

Ericksonian Hypnotherapy Training

The February Ericksonian Hypnosis training was a great success with much laughter and people taking the trance to learn more about their unconscious minds…………………

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Posted by: NLP Practitioner | February 13, 2008

Introduction to NLP Course

Another 8 people successfully completed the Sugar Introductory Certificate in NLP. Comments below……………..

Posted by: Jacqui Sjenitzer | January 30, 2008

Update on my NLP journey….

Happy New Year!

I took advantage of the festive break to start listening to the supporting CDs for the Practitioner Training that Ben sent just before Christmas. I started listening to them on my laptop as they’re MP3 files – now I’ve loaded them to my iPod so I can listen to them when I like. They’re really engaging with lots of thought provoking material so really need full attention, so I’ve made sure I can listen to them when I can really relax and engage with the material.  I’ve got my other half involved with some of the practical bits too -  so I can look for changes in his face and body language that might give clues to what his unconscious mind is up to (he thinks I’ve lost the plot).

 I’ve already started to take more notice of what my senses are picking up, when communicating with others. I’m finding it quite tricky to remember to do it – getting involved with the conversation rather than taking note of all the non verbal clues they’re giving me. It’s getting easier though, and I’ll keep practising!

There’s a lot of information on the CDs – however they are delivered in an easy, friendly, informal way, and in bite sized pieces so it’s easy to do a little and often, rather than tackling the whole lot at once. Luckily I have until my Practitioner Training begins in May to absorb the material – and I’m sure it’ll be useful to have an understanding of some of the key concepts. So far, I’ve found the material compelling and exciting, and am still really keen to keep learning!  Based on my experience so far, I’d definitely recommend learning NLP this way. As I work through the CDs I’ll post updates so that if you’re reading this when considering going for Practitioner training, you’ll have an idea of what treats are coming your way!

Posted by: Ben Dowman | December 16, 2007

Ericksonian Hypnosis

Milton H. Erickson, M.D. (1902-80) was a psychiatrist and hypnotherapist practising in Arizona, Phoenix, USA. Milton Erickson is considered the father of modern hypnotherapy and is generally acknowledged as one of the most important contributors to the field of hypnotherapy.  The approach he used, now called Ericksonian hypnotherapy, is one of the fastest growing and influential branches of hypnosis today.

The Life of Milton Erickson

Erickson was born in a pioneering and rural farming family in 1902. The education that he and many of his brothers and sisters received was basic and it went unnoticed that the young Milton experienced the world in a rather unique manner: he was tone deaf, colour blind and slightly dyslexic.

Erickson was first affected by polio at the age of 19 (he was affected by it again in later years too), and had his first experience of self-hypnosis by curing his disabled body.  While he was recovering Milton kept his active and keen mind occupied by playing mental games with himself. He learned to notice the difference between his family’s verbal and non-verbal communications. He noticed that sometimes people would say “no” with their mouth while their body was clearly saying “yes.”

His parents, who took care of him as best they could, fashioned a crude potty for him and left him strapped into his chair for hours. He was sitting somewhere in the middle of the room, looking longingly at the window, wishing he could be near it so that he could see what was happening outside. As he sat there, seemingly immobile, intensely wishing and imagining being outside playing, the chair began to rock slightly. This excited him greatly and he attempted to make it happen again. He gave himself direct commands: “Move legs! Rock the chair!” Nothing happened. Finally he gave up, sank back into his daydreams, and once more imagined playing outside. Again the chair began to rock! It was the indirect suggestion, that vivid imagining, that produced a response. Using this discovery, over the following two years, Milton taught himself to walk again (aided in the task by closely watching his baby sister who was only then learning to walk), and closely observed how human beings communicate and how the unconscious mind works. Thus one of the hallmarks of Ericksonian hypnotherapy was born: indirect suggestion.

 

What makes the Ericksonian Hypnosis approach so special (compared to other forms of hypnosis)?

Erickson said, “everyone is as unique as their own thumb print” and he believed in working with each client individually. In his practice, he tailored every intervention to a client’s individual needs and perceptual bias. He believed in the wisdom of the unconscious mind, and in the theory that people have all the resources necessary to make changes inside themselves. He believed that the job of the therapist is to help the client re-establish his/her connection with his/her inner resources and to develop a rapport between the conscious and the unconscious mind. One of Erickson’s famous quotes was that “patients are patients because they are out of rapport with their unconscious minds”.

 

Erickson and Storytelling

Erickson was known for his use of metaphor and storytelling, both to induce trance and for therapeutic purposes. He famously told stories about the natural world and, in particular, his stories about tomato plants are often recounted. Talking to a group of psychiatrists Erickson told the following story.

“I was returning from high school one day and a runaway horse galloped past a group of us into a farmer’s yard, looking for a drink of water. The farmer didn’t recognize it so I jumped up to the horse’s back, took hold of the reins, said “Giddy-up” and headed for the highway. I was sure the horse would take me to the right direction even though I didn’t know what the right direction was. And the horse trotted and galloped along. Now and then he would forget he was on the highway and would wander into a field. So I would pull on him a bit and call his attention to the fact that the highway was where he was supposed to be. And finally about four miles from where I had met him he turned into a farmyard”

Incidentally, Erickson would often punctuate his stories with other anecdotes and he would sometimes even tell stories within other stories.  Often, Erickson didn’t use a formal trance induction. Instead he told stories that had a deeper meaning. Sometimes that meaning was clear, many times it was not (well certainly not to the person’s conscious mind). For example, a twelve-year-old boy was brought in to see Erickson about bedwetting. Erickson dismissed his parents and began talking to the boy about other topics, avoiding a direct discussion about bedwetting altogether. Upon learning that the boy played baseball and his brother football, Erickson elaborated on the fine muscle coordination it takes to play baseball, compared to the uncoordinated muscle skills used in football. The boy listened raptly as Erickson described in fine detail all the muscle adjustments his body automatically makes in order to position him underneath the ball and catch it: the glove has to be opened at just the right moment and clamped down again at just the right moment. When transferring the ball to another hand, the same kind of fine muscle control is needed.

Another of Erickson’s famous quotes was, “You can pretend anything and master it” – he really believed that people had all the resources they needed and that any problem contained within it the solution. As you’re reading this now then you you may not realise just how many possibilities there you have within you until you actually STOP………… and consider this…………………….

Meanwhile, with the boy, Erickson continued saying that when throwing the ball to the infield, if one lets go too soon, it doesn’t go where one wants it to go. Likewise letting go too late leads to an undesired outcome and consequently to frustration. Erickson explained that letting go just at the right time gets it to go where one wants it to go, and that constitutes success in baseball. Therapy with this young man consisted of four sessions that included talks about other sports, boy scouts, and muscles. But bedwetting was not discussed, and “formal hypnosis” was not conducted. The boy’s bedwetting disappeared soon thereafter.

We don’t know if Erickson told that story to the psychiatrists or whether he told other ones. Certainly, when he returned to the story about the horse he completed it, saying: and as the horse turned into the farmyard, the farmer said, “you’ve brought my horse back, where did you find him?” I said, “about four miles from here.” “How did you know he should come here?” I said, “I didn’t know, the horse knew. All I did was keep his attention on the road.” Erickson added, “I think that is how you do psychotherapy.”
 

Erickson’s Influence today

The hypnotic techniques and life of Milton Erickson have been well documented by a number of authors and Erickson heavily influenced John Grinder and Richard Bandler, the co-founders of NLP.  Gregory Bateson is said to have suggested to Grinder and Bandler, that they visit Erickson and learn from him and after modelling Erickson they published several books to teach others the results of their modelling.

Posted by: Jacqui Sjenitzer | December 6, 2007

Here’s my NLP story and how I was drawn to Sugar.

I was always interested in how we think and process information and with a background in psychology and learning and development, I had crossed paths with NLP over the past decade, without getting round to experiencing it first hand.  A previous work colleague who was a Master Practitioner had been a really positive influence on me, and I had subscribed to a number of NLP sites which drip fed me information about the discipline.  So, whilst I knew a little about ‘anchoring’ and ‘states’ – I felt I was scratching the surface of the mountain of knowledge that is NLP and didn’t know or understand enough to fully integrate it into my life. Following a decision to be more focused in my goal setting this year, I created a ‘goals board’. I had found the Sugar website after googling for a local NLP training provider, and was inspired by it to pin details of Sugar’s NLP Practitioner course for Summer 2008 to my board. I was delighted when Neal and Ben offered me the opportunity to take up a Partnership place on the very same course – so it looks as though I’m well on my way to achieving my NLP goal!  

So – pre-training  - I’m feeling enthusiastic and eagerly awaiting the course next year – now that I’m booked onto it I find myself noticing more details about my communication with others – where they look when they’re talking or remembering things, what language they’re using, can I pick up any cues about what their unconscious mind is telling me. I want to be the best communicator I can – and I’m looking forward to finding out how Sugar’s NLP Practitioner training will help me do that.

Jacqui is taking the  Sugar NLP Practitioner training starting in 2008 (8th – 11th May, 31st May – 2nd June and 19th – 22nd June) -for more information visit www.sugarnlp.co.uk

Posted by: Ben Dowman | November 13, 2007

Sugar NLP Training in November

2o people completed the Autumn Sugar NLP Practitioner training recently and were awarded status as certified Practitioners of NLP. To find out more about the training and to see pictures and videos view the Previous Courses page or to read 1 persons summary of the course view A Client Experience

 A further 6 people completed the 2-day Introduction to NLP training and enjoyed learning about Rapport, Pacing and Leading, Perceptual Positions, The Language of Influence and Setting Goals as well as some funky music!

Click on the comments below to find out what people have said………..

Posted by: Ben Dowman | November 11, 2007

Congratulations to Andrew Skirenko – Enhance

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We’d like to Congratulate one of our former students, Andrew Skirenko, on establishing his own business in Kendal, Cumbria. Enhance respectfully utilises Hypnotherapy and NLP (Neuro-Linguistic-Programming) techniques empowering you to enhance yourself in the way that is totally right for you.

Andrew is a certified NLP Practitioner, NLP Master Practitioner and Advanced Life Coach and is also a certified Hypnotherapist and Master Hypnotherapist. Having trained with us at Sugar NLP Andrew is now applying his skills to help others and can be contacted via his website www.enhancetp.co.uk or via phone on 01539 720591

 Congratulations Andrew

Posted by: Ben Dowman | November 10, 2007

NLP Practice Groups

More and more people have been asking about NLP Practice groups and the possiblities to continue developing their NLP skills. NLP Practice groups can offer the opportunity to meet other Practitioners of NLP and to refine and develop your NLP skills.

So, in response to this Sugar NLP have started a practice group open to anyone (whether you have trained with us or not) with an interest in NLP. Our first successful practice group evening was on October 2nd and we are delighted to invite people to the next evening on December 4th, 7pm – 9:30pm at the Riverside Hotel, Kendal (www.riversidekendal.co.uk). Both Neal and Ben will offer a workshop so there will be a choice of topics available depending on what interests you most.  Neal will offer a workshop for those who are new to NLP exploring the Map is Not the Territory. Ben will offer a workshop for NLP Practitioners and Master Practitioners using the Milton Model to create Motivation. There will, of course, be an opportunity to meet up with friends and colleagues as well. Each evening costs £5 which is to cover the cost of the venue, tea, coffee and cake!

Practice Group Dates
  • December 4th 2007
  • February 12th 2008

Since many course particpants travel from accross the UK (in fact, recent NLP courses have involved people from Scotland, Cornwall, Kent and Essex) we appreciate that the Kendal Practice group won’t suit everyone. There is an extensive list of Regional NLP Practice Groups across the UK available on the ANLP website (www.anlp.org.)

Posted by: NLP Practitioner | October 31, 2007

Introductory Certificate in NLP

An all round introduction to NLP and how you can use it to gain control of your emotions and thoughts and begin to understand how our beliefs and values shape our reality. As well as finding out how NLP can be useful for you and some applications for changing your own life there will be opportunities to use carefully selected NLP tools and techniques applied to working with groups of people in teaching, training, instructing and coaching. You will get practical skills that make a difference to your work that can be applied immediately.

Prerequisite None
Ideal for Everyone with an interest in skills for excellent communication and change with individuals and groups.
Duration  16 Hours – 2 Days
Certification Sugar Certificate in NLP
Next course 11th – 12th February 2008
Investment £165 (£115 Before the 15th January, £82 before 31st Dec 07)
Next Steps NLP Practitioner

If you would like to read more about this forthcoming Introductory Certification in NLP then you can click here >>> http://nlpnorth.co.uk/nlp_training_courses.htm or if you would like to book a place for you or a colleague then please give us a call or drop us an email.

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